Users and abusers

Dear readers,
             Today I'm blogging about users and abuser and let's first all admit together, we have that one friend who is basically using them , we know this but we just...oblige? That person who you weren't that closes with and they got closer...and closer...until you're pretty much best friends. Initially it's only that odd thing, right? Can you pick me up this or can you do that, of course being their friend you may choose to do whatever. But it increases...and increases.....and increase and before you know they depend on you for everything, you find yourself worrying about them as if they are your child...bit said really? Don't worry I am also a victim! Don't stress, you are never the only one. <3
              Chances are the person will have you and another best friend who doesn't get used. They will be the number one and you are left doing everything! This is one of the very obvious signs you are being used. One of the first you can spot but significant others will probably have spotted it and gently hinted. Can you do my coursework I'm going somewhere with whoever the other best friend is. At this point, they rely on you and you are too caring and nice to that person...Time to learn to change this.
               Let's start with what you SHOULD NOT do : never confront them out front "why are you using me?" first, the other best friend will probably say something and so will the user. They will deny everything and say you said you would do it . What I would advise doing is learn to say no to things you don't have time to do, followed up with the things you don't want to do, and then finally inspire them to do all the things you do for them. If they are your friend, they won't give a damn and that defines friendship...but that's for another time...perhaps?
                               Thanks for reading xx
                                    Catears out